Hey, I looked back & saw a couple things here......
"This is my second cook on charcoal."
I don't actually remember my 2nd cook on charcoal, but it might have gone something like:"Squirt some more lighter fluid thru the grates of the Smokey Joe while the shrimp's still on the grate......Mmmmmmm......lighter fluid marinade.....Mmmmmmm"
I think we may have had beer for dinner that nite.......
And...........
"Was very stressed out all day long while they were cooking."
Relax......you're doin' great......get in the groove......here, watch this video.....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0rp-r8yShs"Bela Fleck & The Flecktones - Throwdown at the Hoedown" live at Byron Bay Australia
Has nothing to do with BBQ, everything to do with catchin' a rhythm, the swing, a groove.......
The bass player's my favorite musician & I saw a short interview w/ him at Berklee College of Music when he did guest workshops there....
He talked about going to do a solo & realizing he had to "Remember to Breathe"
So when you start getting stressed out......"Remember to Breathe"