This one has really been scratching at my mind the last couple of days - I guess the only resolution is going to be to try it myself, although I'm apprehensive about what I'm going to find out.
I originally got into this hobby/sport/obsession specifically because it was hard, because it took patience, and frankly because it just wasn't something everybody did well. If it turns out I've been deluding myself and perpetuating a myth that it's way harder and more time consuming than it actually needs to be I've got to say that kind of puts a tarnish on the whole experience for me. I admit I'm taking this ridiculously personally, however for me BBQ has become such a big part of how I identify myself I can't help but be personal about it.