I guess I would say that if you're wife's not on board and you're spending money you don't necessary have behind her back, then, yeah, you should be nervous. Having said that, the seller shouldn't be pushing you into buying to a point where you feel you have no other option other than to say "okay" just to get him off your back. That's not cool. In any event, you bought it, so now you get to have fun fixing it up and then using it! Buy the wife some flowers and promise that the first smoke will be for her.